"I am no one's person": Woman explains what coupled people just don't get about being "chronically single"

Understanding Chronic Singleness

TikTok creator Emma (@mainelyemma) shares her emotional experience of being "chronically single" in a world designed for couples.

"I am no one's person… I am no one's first choice. There is no one on this planet that exists, that is that for me, or that I am that for them."

Emma highlights the struggles of single people, who often have to rely on themselves without a partner to share the load, making everyday life disorienting, terrifying, and exhausting.

Despite having love and support from friends, family, and communities, single people face unique challenges in a society that caters to couples.

Author's summary: Emma shares her emotional experience of being chronically single.

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The Daily Dot The Daily Dot — 2025-10-13