Man earning more says GF feels bad when he pays for dates and becomes emotional during her period - Singapore News

Man's Dilemma: Girlfriend Feels Uncomfortable with Him Paying for Dates

A man in Singapore has taken to the r/sgdatingscene subreddit to share his concerns about his girlfriend's behavior on dates.

Despite earning more than his girlfriend, he doesn't mind paying for their dates, but she feels uneasy when he covers the expenses.

I am personally fine with this [arrangement]. I don’t mind—it’s just the practical arrangement given our income difference…however, she feels uncomfortable with me covering so much.

Commenters have suggested that the couple take turns paying the bill on dates to alleviate the issue.

Additionally, the man is struggling with his girlfriend's "extreme mood swings" during her period, and commenters have advised them to discuss this issue as well.

Author's summary: Man's girlfriend feels bad when he pays for dates.

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